Monday, August 10, 2009
What a Sensitve Dog Teaches: Part I
Get shot and you become hyper-sensitive to gunshots. When Jack heard gunshots roll across the cornfields, he put his head down and trotted in the other direction until he found a bunker – a fence row, a building, someplace – where he could hide.
No amounts of shouting, cajoling, happy voices, commands, could stop him.
I became hyper-sensitive to gunshots. Did everyone in a two-mile radius own guns?
I walked him on leash.
I continued loving him.
And, I discovered something about him and me.
When the shots barked in the distance, he looked at me for my reaction. If I didn’t react, he resumed walking. If I flinched, if I told him it was okay, he pulled on the leash, trying to escape, to find a safe zone.
I learned to become the confident leader, and over time, he gained more confidence in himself.
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